Before moving in with a flatmate, it’s important to discuss some key topics to ensure that everyone is on the same page and to prevent any misunderstandings later on. Here are some important questions to ask before moving in together:
What are your living habits like?
Are you a neat freak or more laid-back? Do you like to entertain guests often or do you prefer a quieter atmosphere? Knowing your roommate’s preferences can help you make sure your living situation is comfortable for everyone.
How will you handle shared expenses?
Will you split the rent and bills evenly, or will you use a different system? It’s important to know who is responsible for paying for what and to set up a system for paying bills and rent.
Are you okay with overnight guests?
How often are you allowed and how much notice do you need? Being comfortable with your roommate’s dating/social life and how it may affect your own.
How do you feel about smoking, drugs, and alcohol?
Knowing your roommate’s stance on these issues can help you avoid conflicts later on.
How will you handle conflicts?
Discussing strategies for conflict resolution can help you handle disagreements and disagreements when they arise.
Are you comfortable with having roommates who have pets or do you have allergies?
Knowing what everyone’s stance is can help ensure a comfortable and healthy environment.
What is your schedule like?
Are you a night owl or an early riser? This can help you both work out when you are most likely to be in and out of the apartment, and how that could affect each other.
How will you manage cleaning and chores?
Having a clean and tidy living space is important to most people, so it’s essential to discuss expectations for cleaning and household tasks to avoid any issues later on.
Asking these questions and discussing these topics can help ensure that everyone is on the same page, and can help prevent potential conflicts or misunderstandings later on.
